1. Who eats more?
He usually does, but sometimes I do.
2. Who said “I love you” first?
3. Who is the morning person?
it depends on the morning, for real. he's been getting up really early and going running though. he runs 10 miles now! what a jamesweirdo.
4. Who sings better?
5. Who’s older?
he is but a year and a quarter.
6. Who’s smarter?
I could never fly a plane, he could never use photoshop. I understand poetry and symbolism, James makes a goal and gets there. He is very good at sudoku, I am very good at crosswords, we are both fairly bad at the other in relation to our general intelligencebut we both do both of them all the time and explain to the other our methods. We are very complementary.
7. Whose temper is worse?
His, but I feign anger more. It freaks me out when he's angry because he won't look at me. He flies off the handle when he thinks he's being nagged, whereas I get more mad for what I think are verbal slights. Our tempers are both worst while doing chores.
8. Who does the laundry?
9. Who does the dishes?
He does, since I do most of the rest of it.
10. Who sleeps on the right side of the bed?
At home, he does. Anywhere, I sleep on the door side, and he on the window side. If those are the same sides, it depends onthe bed position. I have thin eyelids (ask me to show you in person!).
11. Whose feet are bigger?
his, but we can share sneakers if need be. I wear a 10 mens, he a 10.5. We only wear New Balance, I don't know why.
12. Whose hair is longer?
mine, by a lot.
13. Who’s better with the computer?
14. Do you have pets?
why, yes we do! James has a fish and I have all the others. James feeds and lets the dog out 33% of the time, and feeds the cats 20% of the time. The ferrets 2%. He feeds the fish 90% of the time, but he only feeds it every 4 days, really.
15. Who pays the bills?
Me, but he pays his huge loans and credit cards.
16. Who cooks dinner?
I do, but he wants to more often than he does. I get stressed about letting him cook for me for some reason.
17. Who drives when you are together?
him. more often in my car, i get 50 mpg.
18. Who pays when you go out to dinner?
we trade off mostly.
19. Who’s the most stubborn?
20. Who is the first one to admit when they’re wrong?
i'm not usually wrong ;) also, see 19.
21. Whose family do you see more?
His, but he has a mom and sister, and I don't have immediate family. I see Caitlin and Sarah a fair bit though.
22. Who named your pet?
23. Who kissed who first?
It was the same time.
24. Who asked who out?
we just talked around it and agreed very awkwardly to be in a relationship.
25. What did you do on your first date?
we never had a first date really? i guess our relationship started around 4 am one night. i went back to ny (i was in fl for a weekend) on a 5 am flight and didn't see him again for over a month--though we were together long distance for that time. Our first date started when I met him at Grand Central and we took a taxi to my dorm, holding pinkies and glancing at each other. I don't remember anything after that! Did we go to Burrito Loco that night?? I'm sure we went out somewhere.
26. Who’s more sensitive?
he is, I pretend to be.
27. Who’s taller?
HAHAHHAHAHHA. I am by 1 cm, but if you ask him he'll you he is. This is the basis of our relationship, we started out by teasing each other about height. Even if he is taller than me, he is pretty short--under 5'9.
28. Who has more friends?
That's hard to say. We have a lot of the same friends--most of the same friends, and we each have other friends too, who the other generally becomes friends iwth.
29. Who has more siblings?
He has a sister, I don't have any.
30. Who wears the pants in the relationship?
We wear different pants. For my bridal shower, mip made me a 2-person pair of [under] pants with our names sewed on them.